Getting back to a routine.

Well, we have been home for about a week now. In some ways it seems longer. In some ways it seems like only a few days. Laura is doing great. She either sleeps, or demands to be the center of attention.

As I have said in a previous post, this is new territory for Tara and I. Neither one of us wants the spot light. But all is good.

I am still amazed at how much more active she is than before the surgery. Everyday, she is awake a little longer than the day before. Everyday she fight sleep a little harder. This is going to make the coming years very interesting to say the least.

We had our first visit with Laura's E.C.I. therapist this morning. Liegh was very impressed with Laura's suck. This is big news, because as most of you know for almost a month before Laura's heart surgery she was feeding mostly through her NG tube. She just tired out so quickly when she would try to bottle feed. Tara and I kept doing Laura on her exercises as best we could once she was on the NG tube completely. We are hoping it will pay off soon.

Our plan, and Leigh agrees, is to start slow. We are continuing Laura's exercises from before her surgery. We are also putting a little of her food in just the nipple (not giving her a bottle yet) and letting her get used to that. The down side to exclusive NG Tube feeding is that Laura (and most others who have to be tube fed) develop a food aversion. That means they either do not like the taste of food of the feel of it in their mouths. Another weird idea to me, as I believe eating is a very good thing. On top of the food aversion, we are trying to get Laura past a bad gag reflex as well. So these are our current challenges.

Some of you may have noticed there is a new web site in the list. The Oley Foundation is a nonprofit that tries to provide support for families who have a member that must be tube fed. I checked out their web site, and they have some good information out there.

So we are home. We are feeding every three hours. She is more active and more motivated. She tracks with eyes much better. When she focuses on you she actively tries to interact with you. She makes sounds, smiles (all the time now) and just seems to be enjoying life. Tara and I are very happy that she is doing so well. We thank God daily.

Finally, Welcome Nathanael Miller to the world. Congratulations to Rachel, Matt, Gabriel and Jonathan on finally getting to bring the newest addition to the family home.